NaZuL
Legacy Member
Ja sorry dak hier int engels de hele uitleg gedaan heb maar dit komt van een andere site en tis nogal ne lange uitleg dus pls lees het maar is alvast bedankt!
Well about a half year ago i broke a friendship with my best friend aka thebud on this board.
I will tell you the whole story and please tell me what you all think of this.
We've known each other for almost 7 years i think when suddenly i met this girl named Eline and got in love with her. We dated from then on.
On the same time TheBud was dating a girlfriend of mine for almost 2 years i think when they suddenly decided to end their relationship.
As a good friend i visited him every two weeks or sometimes each week.
It also came to pass that i presented my GF Eline to him.
Later on when time passed she began to fell something for him but he didn't react to it.
I also heared that she was visiting TheBud for talking with him cause she was a little down at the time and i didnt have the time cause i had to work.
Later on i heared they had sex and that they were very sorry for what they did.
From that moment on i freaked out I admit.
First i didnt want to know anything anymore from him but when the time passed i forgave him.
At that time he didnt have much friends left.
Now you first have to know some things before i tell you the rest
Bad characteristics of TheBud:
Computer addict
doesnt want to work unless its a really good job that interests him
Selfish
Sex addict
He always thinks he knows everyting
Doesnt folow an education anymore
Has no money
I know everybody has his good and bad chars and so does he.
So these things got bigger in time and it got too much for me
One day we were having a conversation and i told him that it would take a long time before i completely forgave him for what he did.
Then it also camme to pass that i also betrayed him several times and he forgave me to but that were never such hard things like fucking his GF you know.
Then it suddenly got too much for me in the conversation and i told him all his bad characteristics and that i couldnt stand them anymore. And that it could be the reason that he lost all his friends for that.
Then he got angry and that was the last thing i heared from him.
3 months later i've sent an email containing my regrets for saying this but still he doesn't answer. I sent some PM's to but nothing, also on other message boards. I dont have a phone nr of him either. So i cant contact him anymore
I think come on! Like I'm the one to blame here? Or am I ?
I posted this here so he can read this to and i hope to get some reactions from him to by this.
Please tell me what you think of this and if you would had this situation what you would have done.
Thnx guys!
Well about a half year ago i broke a friendship with my best friend aka thebud on this board.
I will tell you the whole story and please tell me what you all think of this.
We've known each other for almost 7 years i think when suddenly i met this girl named Eline and got in love with her. We dated from then on.
On the same time TheBud was dating a girlfriend of mine for almost 2 years i think when they suddenly decided to end their relationship.
As a good friend i visited him every two weeks or sometimes each week.
It also came to pass that i presented my GF Eline to him.
Later on when time passed she began to fell something for him but he didn't react to it.
I also heared that she was visiting TheBud for talking with him cause she was a little down at the time and i didnt have the time cause i had to work.
Later on i heared they had sex and that they were very sorry for what they did.
From that moment on i freaked out I admit.
First i didnt want to know anything anymore from him but when the time passed i forgave him.
At that time he didnt have much friends left.
Now you first have to know some things before i tell you the rest
Bad characteristics of TheBud:
Computer addict
doesnt want to work unless its a really good job that interests him
Selfish
Sex addict
He always thinks he knows everyting
Doesnt folow an education anymore
Has no money
I know everybody has his good and bad chars and so does he.
So these things got bigger in time and it got too much for me
One day we were having a conversation and i told him that it would take a long time before i completely forgave him for what he did.
Then it also camme to pass that i also betrayed him several times and he forgave me to but that were never such hard things like fucking his GF you know.
Then it suddenly got too much for me in the conversation and i told him all his bad characteristics and that i couldnt stand them anymore. And that it could be the reason that he lost all his friends for that.
Then he got angry and that was the last thing i heared from him.
3 months later i've sent an email containing my regrets for saying this but still he doesn't answer. I sent some PM's to but nothing, also on other message boards. I dont have a phone nr of him either. So i cant contact him anymore
I think come on! Like I'm the one to blame here? Or am I ?
I posted this here so he can read this to and i hope to get some reactions from him to by this.
Please tell me what you think of this and if you would had this situation what you would have done.
Thnx guys!